Persetan Persamaan Gender
it starts with "this very fine young lady should get married, not working and studying all the time, because at the end of the day, what are you chasing after?"
ahem. well old people, i can argue this for hours. I’m not saying that i don’t want to get married. i would love to, trust me. tomorrow if possible! but the thing is i haven’t found the right one. to spend the rest of my life with. to forever sit together on the sofa and watch TV/read books/talk. to raise kids. too cook in the kitchen. Meanwhile, i have some more things to do. i’m thinking until i find the right one, i will continue working. this is the world that i really feel that i belong to. there are students waiting in the class for my lecture. there are due dates to meet and tasks to finish. there are knowledge and new things to learn everyday. how come you old people don’t enjoy this? it feels damn fab! better than being domesticated and watch infotainments at home after doing home chores.
however, i feel bad to my mom, having to answer all these nonsense grandmamas utterances. she has to deal the fact that her oldest daughter is not into marriage (yet), oh wait, not not into marriage, but still has not planned to get married. later mom, i will!
"oh! can you just please goddamn say it!"
hahaha people would frown if i say that i’m a girl who will speak up if i have a crush on someone. just blurt it out babe! how come only guys who have the right to say and we have to shut our mouths off! but believe me, in our ideal world where we are supposedly chosen and guys are the bees who buzz and sting near the nectared flower, it’s not that easy for girls to say it. too proud, that’s the main reason. gengsi tai kucing. wimpy perhaps! but sometimes if it’s too hard to bear, maybe it’s the time to speak your mind. sometimes they are just daft and get it wrong. sometimes they think that you’re not interested by playing it hard. ahh enufff, sounds like a letter in agony aunt at cosmogirl. oh please!
"loh salah siapa pake baju seksi, makanya disuit-suitin tukang ojek tuh!"
hey all pervert creature, dont blame it on the outfits, but it’s your problems of holding your horses, and keep your stupid gutter-ish mind in your pants! we don’t whistle off guys who have nice bums, we don’t pop our eyes out to see hot guys in the streets. hello. i wonder how on earth they have the justification that it’s girls in skanky skirts’ faults that the rape cases’ increased. bah. my fu*kin ass. aiyy, excuse my French.
November 10th, 2006 at 9:48 am
“we don’t whistle off guys who have nice bums”
-no, you don’t.
“we don’t pop our eyes out to see hot guys in the streets. hello.”
-are you sure now? hehe!
ok, besides the point. at the risk of being castigated by the entire male species, men have been this way for thousands of years. how do you change this? but then again, not all men are like this. education is key i suppose.
hang in there cit, the one will come one day. perhaps you’ve found him but just haven’t noticed yet. gambade-mas!!
November 11th, 2006 at 7:59 pm
hahaha i like your optimistic point of view!
“perhaps you’ve found him but just haven’t noticed yet”
hmmm yea maybe..
November 21st, 2006 at 8:26 pm
i was lured to comment, but then i saw that fart button ad, so i press it heheheheheuuu….
need to talk to you bout the ph.d plan